We’re expecting bad weather here today, with Tropical Storm Hanna due to pass directly over our home area around 2:00 pm. It won’t be anything like this year’s real storms, like Gustav and Ike. I compare it, though, to blog storms we’ve had here in discussions recently. I’m no meteorologist, but I know that tropical storms are systems that grow under certain conditions. Blog storms do that too.
These “blog storms” are discussion threads in which misunderstandings escalate into anger and accusations. There are always personality factors involved. We’re not perfect. The most recent such storm came right out of a blog post on that very topic. Ironic.
On top of that there are systemic factors that can fuel misunderstandings. We start from different places, so it can be hard to see the world the way others do. That difficulty is compounded in a blog discussion format by at least four things:
- We don’t really know each other. Anonymity can breed all kinds of behavior. Lack of true acquaintance with each other can turn a three-dimensional person into a one-dimensional arguer, at least in our perceptions.
- We’re not professional writers or logicians, most of us. We might not write something clearly, or it might even come out meaning something different than we intended.
- Our blog posts get complex, dealing with more than one topic or line of reasoning at a time. It’s easy (and sometimes the only sensible thing) to respond only to one or two points out of a long discussion. But we tend to focus on the weak spots and ignore points we have in common; and it’s all too easy for things to become distorted out of context.
- Discussions are non-linear, sometimes with two or three completely different conversations wrapped around each other in one thread. That in itself complicates mutual understanding.
Even the best of people can get confused under these conditions, and confusion can lead any of us toward becoming irritated.
I don’t know how to solve all of these any more than I know how to tame a tropical storm. Personalities will always be flawed, including mine—that’s probably the one Christian doctrine that’s most easily confirmed by empirical observation. I do know of an experiment under development that might contribute to reducing some of the systemic problems I just named, but it will have its own limitations of a different sort.
Meanwhile blogs like mine will continue to host discussions like we do. What I hope to accomplish here is perhaps something parallel to preparing for a literal storm. If you know what the issues are likely to be, chances are you’ll come through it better. Having reflected on this a bit, I hope I can be more aware that where others misunderstand me, it’s not necessarily due to a character flaw. It’s partly the system, and we all have to learn to work through it as patiently as we can.
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And now a related technical note. I had thought that threaded comments (where replies sit on the page immediately attached to the comment they are responding to) would help reduce the non-linearity factor. It didn’t work that way, because it jumbled up the temporal sequences. A later comment could precede an earlier one on the page. And it made it hard to find some comments or to link back to them.
I had a poll up to see what others thought about threaded comments. If you were watching the poll results, the few votes that came in seemed to be in favor of keeping them. Behind the scenes, though, the system shows that those who voted in favor of them had never commented here (or if they had, they voted from a different computer).
So I’m going to turn off threaded comments today. This will unfortunately jumble up some past discussions, but they’re over anyway. Hopefully it will make future ones just slightly easier again.
